Ethical Decisions in a world of Grey

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I have pondered this topic greatly over the past several weeks and this post has actually changed in both direction and content several times.  It seems that the decisions that most often come back to bite us are the ones we don’t even remember making.  This is because it is the small breaches in our judgment that lead to a cascade of events that overshadows the real misshape.

In our modern business world most decisions that involve business judgment calls are complex or "Grey" that is a given.  But what I think we fail to recognize is that if we subjected these “Grey Areas” to scriptural guidance the answers arrive in vivid color.

So what is a simple yet effective test for judgment calls in the business world that will keep us on the narrow path?  The bible is a massive text with many stories, lessons, laws and commandments, right?  How does one take a modern problem and quickly assess if it is in good Godly accordance?  Well, I am sure that this could be a subject of great debate and I would leave that to debate to men much smarter and wiser than I.  For me I like to keep it simple and I think that is what Jesus was doing when he said there are only two commandments that need to be kept and by keeping them you will not breach the others.  So lets do the same with our current decisions in the business world. 

1.  Does your possible solution/direction/decision glorify God?  Does it bring glory to God?  Many decisions may at first pass not have much to do with God.  But this is a simple question to which there is only a yes or no answer.  I think in many cases it may be easier to say does this decision have possible outcomes that in any way disgrace or bring dishonor to God?

2.  Does your possible solution/direction/decision show love, kindness and compassion for your neighbor?  Or maybe this is easier to answer by asking does your decision in any way NOT show love, kindness and compassion for your neighbor or fellow man.

This may seem overly simplistic but before you dismiss this I would challenge you to try it.  Remember, a reasonable profit is not dishonoring God nor is it unkind to your fellow man.  A healthy profit may not be either depending on the circumstances or situation.  Opportunistic profit though would have a hard time passing either of the above criteria.  The key is analyzing your motivations and defining if you are in line with the Will of God or the Will of You?

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He answered: "'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind'; and, 'Love your neighbor as yourself'"
Luke 10:27

 

 

Trust Issues

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A few years ago when I read the book, "The Shack" by William P. Young, I realized that this point of trusting God had been largely missing in my life. There is a part in the book where the main character stands before a judge and he is thinking that he is being judged but as it turns out he realizes that he had been judging God. He was doing so by saying that he knew better than God when he was questioning why things in his life had gone the way they had. He was not trusting God, he was judging God by condemning his actions for the twist and turns of his life. 

Many people struggle to form true business relationships or partnerships that can elevate their business because they cannot trust others. This lack of trust is rooted in not so much the inability to trust others as it is from the lack of trust in God. Can we trust that even when things go wrong the Lord is at work in our live? Can we trust that even if we expose ourselves to others and are not treated justly that God is still at work for his greater good? Yes, God asks us only to make sure our motives are aligned with his Will and then all will be resolved to his glory. 

Read Psalm 23 and then ask yourself honestly, is the Lord your Shepherd? If so what a great promise of peace. This, one of the most famous verses, says one thing loud and clear... "Trust Me." Do you trust God in your career and business relationships? Trust in God will change the way you treat everyone around you!  And, it is the pathway to true peace.

Psalm 23

1 The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want. 
2 He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, 
3 he restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake. 
4 Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, 
for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. 
5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. 
You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. 
6 Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, 
and I will dwell in the house of the LORD for ever. 

Psalm 23 paraphrased 

 

A Promise from God


I am your shepherd
You will never have need of anything that I want for you.
If you will trust me, and allow me to be the shepherd of your life, 
I will give to you such great peace of mind that it will be like 
lying in the cool green grass of a springtime meadow;
And as you learn to deepen your love and trust,
a quietness will come over your soul
like a serene, calm lake.

It will be a time of great refreshment to your inner man,
thus preparing you to do whatever tasks I set before you to do;
And do not minimize any task that I give you to do,
as it is for my honor and glory, not yours.

There will be times when, because of my great love for you,
it will be necessary for me to lead you
into great darkness.....
Darkness that will be so great that you will feel as
though you are standing at the very edge of life, 
with death awaiting you below.

But always remember, I am still your shepherd.
In the darkness you may not be able to see me,
but you have my eternal promise that
I will never leave you nor forsake you.

If you will continue to trust me, 
even after you have been through a time of darkness, 
I will again flood your heart with such peace 
that you could even sit down with your enemies.

Your joy will be so great that it will spill over
into the lives of others.
And as your reward I will give to you all the really
important things of life.
When you have completed all that I have planned for you
to do on earth, 
I want you to come up and live
with me forever
and ever
and ever.

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Photo via The Shack

Unplug, Tune Out and Turn On

 

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Imagine one day a week with no computer, no smart phones, no email, no Facebook, no Twitter…   

In our digital society, rest, may be the most over looked concept of our generation. More than anytime previously in history we are constantly accessible or plugged-in to work, our friends, and colleagues. This is true for most regardless whether we are at the office or home. We all know that it is not uncommon to check email, twitter or FB on the Berry or iPhone while at the kids baseball game, which takes our focus away from being in the moment. It is also common to check email and put in an additional hour or so of work after the kids are in bed or after the evening activities family activities have concluded.  This results in a constant high level of stress and unrest given our electric device are visually and mentally stimulating leaving us wired.

Solution? Unplug, take a weekly 24 hour “Techno No Fly Zone”? Meaning “Turn it all off.” I know this is unthinkable for some. But if is, then you likely need the down time the most. I would suggest Sunday because that is the when most people would expect to get the fewest calls, text, tweets, or emails. But, you can pick whatever day works best for your schedule. Believe it or not the world will be there when you plug back in and you may find you are not missed as much as you might have thought. And, if you were then just handle whatever crisis emerged a few hours later than you might have otherwise. It is very doubtful that anyone will notice the difference. However, you will notice. There is a significant benefit to such a discipline. You will sleep better after a day being unplugged and when you do re-engage you will notice your creative intuition is back. After just a brief break you will find that you are less scattered and can again focus on individual tasks with greater clarity and creativity.  

Of course, this concept is not new and it is actually biblical. Really biblical as in Old Testament, Ten Commandments biblical.  The Old Testament Law of “Keep the Sabbath Holy” is not just a suggestion, its a commandment. Seriously, if God needed a break on the Seventh day, how is it we think we don’t. It will most likely feel uncomfortable at first, it did to me. But after a few weeks you will find, as I did, that you will actually look forward to the break.  Give it a try!  Recharge YOUR battery.   

Customer Service

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While the picture above is satire when your customer calls this is exactly what you should do. And, in general to be in service to your fellow man/woman maybe you should actually give it a try. Make it a great day! P.S. I took this photo while running thru an airport in FL yesterday. Sent from my iPad

Honestly 10 Keys to a Better Life

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1. Be honest.

2. Be honest to your boss.

3. Be honest to your employees.

4. Be honest to your co-workers.

5. Be honest to your customers.

6. Be honest to your children.

7. Be honest to your spouse.

8. Be honest to yourself.

9. Be honest to God.

10. Don't lie.

Office Upgrade

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Want to give your office an upgrade?  Here are 4 simple things you can do daily to improve the environment of your workplace. 

1.      Don't say negative things about your peers or superiors to anyone.  When I was young I was told to say nothing at all if I could not say something good. This is still true today, if you cannot say something positive about someone just walk away from the conversation and say nothing.    

 2.     Say, "Thank You.”  Recognize someone today that is doing a good job and then tell them you are grateful for what they are doing.   

 3.     Be on time today.  Value other people's time by being on time.  Showing up late sends the message that you do not value other people's time as much as your own time. Give others respect by being on time and you might be surprised by what you get back in return. 

 4.     Pray for your colleagues at work today.  Especially the ones you don't necessarily like. Pray that they get what they want not what you think they deserve.  Pray that they find a closer relationship with God. 

Who knows?  With a little conscience effort today you could keep your office from crashing. 

 

 

 

 

Truth or Consequences

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Tell the truth. It seems like this should be pretty obvious, right? Unfortunately it is not. Most of us tell our kids frequently to be honest and to tell the truth. We actually punish them when they are not. However, how honest are we? I mean really. How common is to hit “ignore” on a phone call when we see who is calling and we just don’t want to deal with that person at that time. Later we explain we were in a meeting or we were on a conference call. I know to many this may seem trivial but in reality this is just the start. Where does this lead? Small deceptions easily morph into other situations and more elaborate excuses that may carry consequents that are unseen at the time. The truth is sometimes cumbersome, awkward and even embarrassing. Is it worth it to tell the truth even in the small things? Does it matter? 

The following is a true story:

Last year I attended a meeting of which a colleague was to give a marketing presentation to provide promotional direction for our team. The person was given several weeks to compile data and seek input to analyze a promotional initiative and present a recommendation. The task was not an easy one and most of us realized it. When the person began their presentation it was quickly obvious to everyone that they were not prepared. Most of the presentation was incomplete and data was missing.  When the person was questioned as to where the data was that they had compiled the reply given was that they had recently had a computer problem and they were unable to work on it. As the presentation moved on other questions arose that they were not prepared for and they did not have the reference materials in hand. Again, when questioned as to where the data was they replied that it was in their room at he hotel and they had just gotten locked out. Conflicting with their excuse given just minutes before. This was a painful situation to watch, as it was obvious to all that this person was in a panic and was not being truthful. It was sadly obvious that this highly paid and highly experienced professional was lying to the entire group and the boss. In fact, it was so obvious that this situation became the brunt of numerous jokes in the months that followed. The point is that this person was assigned a difficult task and most of us knew it. If they would have arrived that morning and presented what they had come up with and enlisted the group to provide feedback I am sure they would have had a different result. I am sure they would have not lost the trust of their superiors. They could have presented what they had come up with and used the time to brainstorm the issues to find a viable solution. Everyone including their boss would have understood and helped to alleviate the situation to find a solution. Unfortunately, that is not what happened and now six months later that person has been quietly and uneventfully re-assigned to a lesser role. Not because of incompetence but because of the lack of trust.

How do we get to the point that lying to cover up fear of failure or lack of insight or even lack of preparation becomes a viable alternative? Day after day of “white lies” that are mostly insignificant and rarely carry a penalty can lead to days where telling the truth would have avoided consequences.

 “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free." 

  John 8:32 

 

 

Love thy...

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Relationships in business can mean many things.  From the relationship you have with peers, superiors and subordinates to the relationship you have with the company itself.  The thought today is how do we apply our faith to these relationships. Given that more than half of our waking hours are spent at our work.  How then after leaving church on Sunday morning do we apply Jesus's second commandment to these business relationships, "Love your neighbor as yourself."  

This is a tough one for many reasons. This is mostly because of the competitive nature inherent within business and corporate careers.  In most cases as a company we come together as a team to compete against other companies selling products or services. We also compete within our respective companies to show our value of helping the team achieve its goals.  These environments are not conducive to selflessness and building lasting relationships here can be a challenge.  Many have heard the phrase "Nice guys finish last" and that can be true in the short-term. After years of witnessing the behaviors of people in the workplace I can say that the concept of serving others at a cost to us separates the men from the boys.  It requires a long-term vision of how all things work to the benefit of all involved when the greater good is served.  It is delayed gratification, which is too frequently a foreign concept in our modern world dedicated to having it now. Christ said a lot about relationships because it was obviously important to him to give us guidance.  And, ultimately he was guiding us to a relationship with God our Father.  He told us how to love our spouses and treat our neighbors because he knew that it was and is human nature to perceive the world as a place of limited resources, a place where we would compete for the same resources with a "Me" mentality.  In reality when we can see how serving others ultimately serves us and all involved then we can begin to see the world as not a place of limited resources but one of abundance and plenty.  But believing in things yet unseen takes Faith.